Jimmy & Carolyn offered to be our hosts while Deb finishes up her job. They epitomize words like "gracious" and "giving." We live in their driveway out in a quiet, sparsely populated, woodsy area of New Kent County and we LOVE it there. In the morning, you can hear the baa of neighboring sheep, while guineas and chickens peck for breakfast nearby. There are always at least 10 hummingbirds around the feeders, and Carolyn tells me the names of the other brightly colored winged denizens that come for seeds.
Carolyn is a mother, through and through. Last night she picked a tick off of me because I was too freaked out to touch it. She is a nurse of baby birds, feral cats and all the tiny woods creatures that come to her. She and Jimmy have been married some 30+ years and have this calm, nurturing aura about them. They love life, especially in the form of kayaking, hiking, camping, skiing, art, music and maintaining friendships that have spanned a lifetime.
Jimmy is a man of music. We have had countless conversations about bands and artists we like, and he has been opening my ears to the albums in his collection. Jimmy is never more than a phone call away, whether for bypassing traffic on the way out to New Kent, where to find food, where to find hex bits, what kind of extension cord will power our air conditioner on hot days, how to find the coffee shop so he can give me a ride home.
This morning I have taken them up on yet another offer. They have a beautiful place at
Emrick Flats in downtown Richmond, and there is wireless here. I opened the door and walked into an oasis. The flat has all the beauty characteristic of a remodeled brick warehouse—-enormous windows, high ceilings, glossy, worn concrete floors, space and light. They have the most amazing furniture made from rock and gnarled tree roots. I feel as if I am walking through a riverbed, with the high walls around me casting a cooling shade. Carolyn's art, Nathan H's photography, band and festival posters adorn the walls. There are bright highlights of red from the long couch, echoed in the sea kayak mounted above a wall. Every
First Friday, Jimmy & Carolyn host a cocktail get together here, before everyone heads out to the surrounding galleries to see the latest installations in Richmond's burgeoning art scene.
So how do we know Jimmy & Carolyn?
Through
Friends of Jay, of course! Another testimony to the love they give to their friends.


Jeni to the left, and Carolyn, in her "tubegerie!"

Jimmy

Left to right: Jay Bird, Hudson, Alissa & Theo.
Our membership in Friends of Jay came through Hudson, who Deb met circa age 5, and the two of them grew up together in Lexington, VA. Lexington is a small, though increasingly popular town, home to Washington & Lee University, Virginia Military Institute and a lot of Civil War history. It has been dubbed "Lex Vegas" by various residents who grew up there. Hudson has an older brother, Nathan (Nathan H of the amazing photography). Now I am not entirely sure about the order of things, but somehow Nathan befriended key folks, linked to J&C, that became the very popular outdoor group, "Friends of Jay." Jay, or "Jay Bird," went through a rough patch and his friends rallied around him to get him through it. They organized all sorts of outdoor adventures. Word got around and more folks flocked to the Friends of Jay banner. So, one weekend last summer, Deb and I were invited to the Friends of Jay Annual Lex Vegas Maury River Tubing Trip. We had a ball, of course, for what's better than adventures, fine food and the people you love? For Friends of Jay loves each other, and from that comes our friendship with Jimmy & Carolyn, and this is an ode to them!